I said I was gonna make this a post a million years ago, so here’s a post about why I think demisexual!Sam is a thing. Come with me on this journey of my poor attempts at meta (ﾉ◕ヮ◕)ﾉ*:･ﾟ✧*
So, you’re probably thinking’, “what is demisexuality?” Here is a consolidated definition:
Demisexual: is a person who does not experience sexual attraction unless they form a strong emotional connection with someone. The term demisexual comes from the orientation being “halfway between” sexual and asexual. Nevertheless, this term does not mean that demisexuals have an incomplete or half-sexuality, nor does it mean that sexual attraction without emotional connection is required for a complete sexuality. Demisexuals are not choosing to abstain; they simply lack sexual attraction until a close relationship is formed.
Alright, bear with me here.
Sam Winchester is a person who isn’t really concerned about the sexual aspects of a relationship. He is a person who is always getting on Dean about the blatant objectification and how much Dean places sex in a relationship at a high place. This is not to say that Sam thinks Dean should be celibate, or should abstain, as Sam is a person who values the relationship over the sexual part. He doesn’t seem too comfortable with valuing a person in bed over their actual feelings.
Through the demisexual identity, it is not about repressing sexual desires or being abstinent. It’s about emotions, it’s about attraction, it’s about having a bond with someone before the desire of sexual activity happens. Having sex with someone isn’t high on their list of things to, almost unimportant in regards to who that person it
Sam is very much interested in the person, who they are, and sex doesn’t come later until after he’s achieved that level.
Doctor: *Dies but regenerates*
Jo: *Dies but it’s actually a dream thing*
The Brigadier: *Shaves and gets an eyepatch then dies but it was alternate universe so whatever*
Liz: *Burns to death in that same universe*
Benton: *Is turned into a zombie wow this alternate universe really sucks*
Sarah: *Dies when history is changed*
K-9: *Malfunctions but can be fixed*
The Master: *Dies but comes back for some reason*
Tegan: *Goes off the side of a cliff in a speeding train*
Peri: *whatever the hell was going on she kind of dies but doesn’t don’t even ask*
Ace: *Gets shot by David Tennant*
Ace: *Blows up*
Hex: *Dies but then gets reset don’t question it*
Ace: *Does same*
Grace: *Dies but is sparkled back to life by the TARDIS*
Chang Lee: *Same thing*
Charley: *Don’t ask*
C’rizz: *Gets shot*
Jack: *Dies*
Jack: *Dies again*
Jack: *Dies three more times and decides he should take a break and just go get a coffee*
Donna: *Dies but it was really just a giant bug sucking on her back good times good times*
Amy: *Gets shot, dissolved, turned into a doll, killed by robots, crashed into a building, blown up, and jumps off a building but still not really*
Rory: *Gets shot, turned to dust,rotted, drowned, jumps off a building, blown up and erased from time BUT STILL NOT REALLY*
River: *Takes after her parents*
Clara: I can beat that.
I’m like, really bored. If you want to come watch me write, I’m doing an alpha/beta story. Or I can fire up livestream if someone wants to hang out there.
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This is just a friendly reminder that Sir Arthur Conan Doyle actually said, ‘You may marry him, murder him, or do anything you like to him.’ with regards to Sherlock Holmes. So whatever we do with him in art and fanfic has, in fact, been done with the blessing of his…
