{"id":280420,"date":"2018-10-18T21:04:46","date_gmt":"2018-10-18T21:04:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.merindab.com\/private\/2018\/10\/18\/pervocracy-morganoperandi\/"},"modified":"2018-10-18T21:04:46","modified_gmt":"2018-10-18T21:04:46","slug":"pervocracy-morganoperandi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.merindab.com\/private\/2018\/10\/18\/pervocracy-morganoperandi\/","title":{"rendered":""},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a class=\"tumblr_blog\" href=\"http:\/\/pervocracy.tumblr.com\/post\/146271645159\" target=\"_blank\">pervocracy<\/a>:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><a class=\"tumblr_blog\" href=\"http:\/\/morganoperandi.tumblr.com\/post\/145878330682\" target=\"_blank\">morganoperandi<\/a>:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><a class=\"tumblr_blog\" href=\"http:\/\/anarcho-shindouism.tumblr.com\/post\/145837773511\" target=\"_blank\">anarcho-shindouism<\/a>:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>for the record,\u00a0\u2018not feeling anything\u2019 is a valid and not unusual response to trauma or grief<\/p>\n<p>so if you feel empty and devoid of feeling, it\u2019s not because you\u2019re a cold and uncaring person.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Sometimes, not feeling anything is the only way you can cope.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Be prepared for a delayed reaction, too. It\u2019s very common to be totally calm during a crisis, and then days or weeks (or years) later suddenly get hit with a tidal wave of \u201cHOLY SHIT THAT HAPPENED.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes your mind waits until it feels safe to start processing things emotionally. It\u2019s a powerful survival strategy, but it can really blindside you, because just as you start to feel like things are okay, you\u2019re overwhelmed by the realization of how not-okay things were before.<\/p>\n<p>This may not happen, and that\u2019s okay too. But it\u2019s something to watch out for when your initial reaction is numbness.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>pervocracy: morganoperandi: anarcho-shindouism: for the record,\u00a0\u2018not feeling anything\u2019 is a valid and not unusual response to trauma or grief so if you feel empty and devoid of feeling, it\u2019s not because you\u2019re a cold and uncaring person. Sometimes, not feeling anything is the only way you can cope. Be prepared for a delayed reaction, too. &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.merindab.com\/private\/2018\/10\/18\/pervocracy-morganoperandi\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[4302,4],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.merindab.com\/private\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/280420"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.merindab.com\/private\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.merindab.com\/private\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.merindab.com\/private\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.merindab.com\/private\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=280420"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.merindab.com\/private\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/280420\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.merindab.com\/private\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=280420"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.merindab.com\/private\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=280420"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.merindab.com\/private\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=280420"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}