{"id":229556,"date":"2014-02-02T01:00:42","date_gmt":"2014-02-02T01:00:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.merindab.com\/private\/2014\/02\/02\/perpetualshota-guess-what-youre-not\/"},"modified":"2014-02-02T01:00:42","modified_gmt":"2014-02-02T01:00:42","slug":"perpetualshota-guess-what-youre-not","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.merindab.com\/private\/2014\/02\/02\/perpetualshota-guess-what-youre-not\/","title":{"rendered":""},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a class=\"tumblr_blog\" href=\"http:\/\/perpetualshota.tumblr.com\/post\/53311809673\/guess-what-youre-not-obligated-to-forgive-your\" target=\"_blank\">perpetualshota<\/a>:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>guess what?<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>you\u2019re not obligated to forgive your abuser\/s<\/li>\n<li>if it\u2019s been two weeks, a month, a year, or even a decade since your abuse happened, you still have a right to be angry about what happened<\/li>\n<li>you don\u2019t have to \u201cget over it\u201d<\/li>\n<li>you don\u2019t have to forgive your abuser\/s and you DEFINITELY don\u2019t have to trust them<\/li>\n<li>it\u2019s okay to hurt<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>perpetualshota: guess what? you\u2019re not obligated to forgive your abuser\/s if it\u2019s been two weeks, a month, a year, or even a decade since your abuse happened, you still have a right to be angry about what happened you don\u2019t have to \u201cget over it\u201d you don\u2019t have to forgive your abuser\/s and you DEFINITELY &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.merindab.com\/private\/2014\/02\/02\/perpetualshota-guess-what-youre-not\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[13278],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.merindab.com\/private\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/229556"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.merindab.com\/private\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.merindab.com\/private\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.merindab.com\/private\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.merindab.com\/private\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=229556"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.merindab.com\/private\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/229556\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.merindab.com\/private\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=229556"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.merindab.com\/private\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=229556"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.merindab.com\/private\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=229556"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}