{"id":177069,"date":"2014-12-14T20:44:31","date_gmt":"2014-12-14T20:44:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.merindab.com\/private\/2014\/12\/14\/psychodelicunicron-cream-crackered\/"},"modified":"2014-12-14T20:44:31","modified_gmt":"2014-12-14T20:44:31","slug":"psychodelicunicron-cream-crackered","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.merindab.com\/private\/2014\/12\/14\/psychodelicunicron-cream-crackered\/","title":{"rendered":""},"content":{"rendered":"

psychodelicunicron<\/a>:<\/p>\n

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cream-crackered<\/a>:<\/p>\n

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cuntsman-sniper<\/a>:<\/p>\n

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destielkills<\/a>:<\/p>\n

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twowandsandadrink<\/a>:<\/p>\n

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totemo-kawaii\u2014ne<\/a>:<\/p>\n

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omgtsn<\/a>:<\/p>\n

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shittingllamas<\/a>:<\/p>\n

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dudewhodoesthings<\/a>:<\/p>\n

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kystokeable<\/a>:<\/p>\n

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sizvideos<\/a>:<\/p>\n

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Watch it in video<\/a><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

No.\u00a0<\/p>\n

No this is not funny.<\/p>\n

Whether or not it is a joke, I\u2019ve gone onto the channel and there are multiple videos similar to this, which makes me think they\u2019re fake.<\/p>\n

Doesn\u2019t matter.\u00a0<\/p>\n

These videos enforce the idea to parents that yes, the answer to stop your child becoming obsessed with games is to DESTROY them.<\/p>\n

No. This is not funny. It is things like this that cause events such as the father who SHOT his daughter\u2019s laptop to bits to occur. These jokes enforce the attitude that people are \u2018wrong\u2019 for loving games.<\/p>\n

For wanting to play games.\u00a0<\/p>\n

For some people (including myself), games are a serious escape from horrid realities. The only escape some people can get. The idea that this man (boy?) is wrong for being so upset is disgusting to me?<\/p>\n

This is horrific. This is abuse. This is wrong.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

This is a sure fire way to get your kids to hate you.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

do people not understand how much video games cost?<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Video games are a multi-billion dollar business. Some people are good at it. Very good. Do not squander your child\u2019s talents, help them realize them and strengthen them. There are other ways to get your child outside without destroying their games and everything they work for. This won\u2019t solve anything; this will only set them back further.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

do this to your childs anything and they will automatically hate you\/not trust you<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter what it is<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter if its their video games or if its their smoking pipe<\/p>\n

If you just destroy it\/throw it away, you are giving no explanation as to why it\u2019s bad\/you don\u2019t want them to have it<\/p>\n

This can actually psychologically mess a kid up because you teach them that if someone doesn\u2019t like something, they should destroy it<\/p>\n

That can lead to some serious problems with socializing with others and other things<\/p>\n

dont do that to people<\/p>\n

dont<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

I had a notebook I used to write in all the time. I did that thing that Margo did in Paper Towns where she criss crossed her writing, but I did it so I\u2019d have enough room to write everything. I took it everywhere wtih me and wouldn\u2019t let my parents even start the car unless I had in in my lap. My dad got really annoyed by this and said I needed to throw the notebook away, what was written in it wasn\u2019t important anyway (it was to me, very much so). So one day he took and ran it through the paper shredder.
Ever since I\u2019ve had an intense fear of losing my notebooks and currently have a colletion of 53 blank notebooks and 16 that have been written in because I\u2019ve started hoarding them.
Long story short, don\u2019t fucking do this to your kids. You think it\u2019s harmless and some people even think it\u2019s clever, but you\u2019re really just an asshole and are causing actual psychological problems for your children.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

I have a plush rabbit that I\u2019ve had since Easter of the year I was born (I was about 2 months old when I got it). It quickly became a comfort thing for me and I used to go everywhere with it as a child. When my mum and dad split up was when I became kind of dependent on having it around.
If ever I did anything wrong mum always threatened to take it away from me, which obviously caused my 6-year-old self to kick and scream and cry because I needed it.
One day I lost it for 6 or 7 months (turns out it was in my room the whole time but shh it was very well hidden & neither myself or my mum know how it got there)
That was the point that my mum realised she couldn\u2019t threaten to take it away because holy shit I changed so much in those months.<\/p>\n

Seriously, if your child is dependent on something, or takes great comfort in having it around
DO NOT TAKE IT FROM THEM.<\/strong>
It does not matter how old your child is, what their comfort item is, if it\u2019s a video games console – don\u2019t take it from them. If it\u2019s their phone – don\u2019t take it from them. If they\u2019re 18 and still sleep with a teddybear – don\u2019t take it from them.<\/p>\n

This also goes for if your child is self-harming. If they have a blade in their bedroom and you find it DO NOT THROW IT OUT<\/strong>. Talk to them about it, be as supportive as you can, but do not think \u201coh well if I get rid of it they\u2019ll be fine\u201d. It can be seriously distressing and also lead to them becoming creative with what they use.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

I was given my very first computer when I was about 13 on Christmas. I was so excited, because I\u2019d always wanted to have a computer to myself to play PC games and write and use the internet. Eventually, however, after a year of having the computer, my dad started threatening to take it away\/smash it\/cut off my internet access because according to him, I was \u201caddicted\u201d. To this day, he STILL DOES THIS. I no longer have that desktop computer anymore, as I invested in a laptop with my own money. Does that stop him from basically claiming the laptop as his property to do what he wants with and threatening to smash it on me so that I would \u201csocialize\u201d more? Nope.<\/p>\n

No wonder I have a lot of anxiety problems, folks.<\/p>\n

Please do not do this to your children. You can and will create serious problems.\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Besides the trust thing, which is very important, think about what he says \u201cThis is going to be my job. I\u2019m good at it.\u201d Now, we\u2019ve established that this video is probably fake, but think about that for a second. When you destroy your child\u2019s notebooks, computers, games, anything. You could be destroying something they are good at. Very possibly, one of the few things they are good at AND enjoy. By doing this you are ripping away something that they value in themselves. You are literally taking some of their self-esteem away. Don\u2019t do this, it\u2019s shitty parenting.\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

I lost every thing I wrote before I turned 18. I don’t know if my parents tossed it (but i suspect they did). Words and stories I will never, ever get back, even if it was crap, it was my words and my stories from as young as five or six. I \u00a0had it in a folder and took it out to take it with me but it got forgotten and I never saw it again. And all on paper because this was before easy computer backup.<\/p>\n

That was almost 20 years ago and it still hurts.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

psychodelicunicron: cream-crackered: cuntsman-sniper: destielkills: twowandsandadrink: totemo-kawaii\u2014ne: omgtsn: shittingllamas: dudewhodoesthings: kystokeable: sizvideos: Watch it in video No.\u00a0 No this is not funny. Whether or not it is a joke, I\u2019ve gone onto the channel and there are multiple videos similar to this, which makes me think they\u2019re fake. Doesn\u2019t matter.\u00a0 These videos enforce the idea to … <\/p>\n

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