Me: okay so my sexuality’s a complicated deal so let’s just call me queer as hell
\nFriend: nono I wanna know can’t you explain it
\nMe: well ok mainly I am asexual which means I don’t want to do the do nor do I long for it, so it has nothing to do with lack of confidence or anything like that, I simply don’t find anyone sexually attractive
\nFriend: right right
\nMe: but I’m also bi romantic. The sexual and romantic attraction are different, and I still fall in love and want to have physical contact with my partner, I just don’t need the hanky panky
\nFriend: right cause you have a girlfriend that’s pansexual right
\nMe: exactly and as long as we’re both happy with not doing the rumba naked, that’s a valid relationship
\nFriend: I get it, I get it… I didn’t know the entire sexual and romantic orientations were different
\nMe: yeah I know it was an eyeopener for me when I found ou-
\nLady behind us in line: excuse me so sorry but I couldn’t help but overhear but I didn’t know half of what you just said and I was just wondering what that thing your girlfriend was is, pansexual?
\nMe: *awkward glance at friend* oh uh I’m not an expert or anything and uh ok so basically it’s similar to being bisexual, but there’s less value in what gender the one you’re attracted to is, at least as I understood it. So a bisexual would be attracted to a person despite their gender, a pansexual wouldn’t really care at all in a way uh I’m sorry I’m bad at explaining
\nLady behind us in line: that’s alright I can look it up myself later you gave me a general idea! So where did you find out these things, you’re pretty young?
\nMe: well, Internet. Once you’re a bit confused about what you might be you usually go looking for explanations…
\nLady behind us in line: so uh in theory… It’s fine if you don’t know, I just want to check with you… Is there a thing called aROMANTIC? like you’re asexual, is there a equivalent to the romantic orientation you mentioned?
\nMe: oh yeah, absolutely! You can be both asexual and aromantic, or aromantic and heterosexual, literally all combinations are possible!
\nLady behind us in line: *smiles LIKE REALLY GODDAMNED GENUINELY* thank you so much, I did not know that. *fishes up phone from pocket* now if you excuse me, I’m going to call my mother and tell her I’m not crazy for never having been married or stayed with one guy for long despite being 50+ but still has three children! *steps out of line and walks off while dialing*
\nFriend: wow that was… Amazing
\nMe: see how happy she got? That’s the power of right information.
\nAnd that’s why I’ve been smiling since this happened.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Me: okay so my sexuality’s a complicated deal so let’s just call me queer as hell Friend: nono I wanna know can’t you explain it Me: well ok mainly I am asexual which means I don’t want to do the do nor do I long for it, so it has nothing to do with lack … <\/p>\n