{"id":151592,"date":"2015-06-03T02:37:49","date_gmt":"2015-06-03T02:37:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.merindab.com\/private\/2015\/06\/03\/cybertronian-giandujakiss\/"},"modified":"2018-09-08T02:10:31","modified_gmt":"2018-09-08T02:10:31","slug":"cybertronian-giandujakiss","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.merindab.com\/private\/2015\/06\/03\/cybertronian-giandujakiss\/","title":{"rendered":""},"content":{"rendered":"<div id='gallery-1' class='gallery galleryid-151592 gallery-columns-3 gallery-size-thumbnail'><figure class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<div class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/www.merindab.com\/private\/2015\/06\/03\/cybertronian-giandujakiss\/attachment\/151593\/'><img width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/www.merindab.com\/private\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/tumblr_n3ycc68iNV1qzssrlo3_250-150x150.gif\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"\" loading=\"lazy\" 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target=\"_blank\">project-blackbird<\/a>:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><a class=\"tumblr_blog\" href=\"http:\/\/reservoir-of-blood.tumblr.com\/post\/82548589173\" target=\"_blank\">reservoir-of-blood<\/a>:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><i>Emily Vancamp as Sharon Carter in \u201c<b>Captain America: The Winter Soldier\u201d<\/b><\/i><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Here\u2019s an example of what we call a \u201csoft no\u201d. Sharon turns down Steve\u2019s offer in a way that\u2019s meant not to insult him but never actually uses the word \u201cno\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Steve clearly gets the message, though, and importantly <i>offers to leave her alone. <\/i>Sharon\u2019s comment afterwards gives him an opportunity to try again later, but he doesn\u2019t press and respects her rejection of his company even though it\u2019s probably hurt his feelings a bit.<\/p>\n<p>Just in case you ever wonder \u201cWhat would Captain America do?\u201d; there you go.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>never do something steve rogers wouldn\u2019t do.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Unless it\u2019s jumping out of a plane without a parachute, you probably shouldn\u2019t do that<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>I just have to add &#8211; I\u2019ve seen interviews with Marvel people where they say that this scene demonstrates that Cap\u2019s awkward with women and doesn\u2019t know how to ask women out on a date.\u00a0 And it <i>drives me crazy<\/i>, because &#8211; as the OP says &#8211; Steve behaved <i>perfectly<\/i> here.\u00a0 It was a very charming, nonthreatening offer, and he accepted her rejection with good grace.\u00a0 You can\u2019t help but feel that to Hollywood, the fact that she said no <i>means he asked badly<\/i> &#8211; which is exactly how I\u2019d expect Hollywood to think, namely, the idea that men should keep pressing and pushing women until they say yes<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Read this, then read it again.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>cybertronian: giandujakiss: jamesfactscalvin: officialnatasharomanoff: project-blackbird: reservoir-of-blood: Emily Vancamp as Sharon Carter in \u201cCaptain America: The Winter Soldier\u201d Here\u2019s an example of what we call a \u201csoft no\u201d. Sharon turns down Steve\u2019s offer in a way that\u2019s meant not to insult him but never actually uses the word \u201cno\u201d. Steve clearly gets the message, though, and &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.merindab.com\/private\/2015\/06\/03\/cybertronian-giandujakiss\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"gallery","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[1826,8,4,3127],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.merindab.com\/private\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/151592"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.merindab.com\/private\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.merindab.com\/private\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.merindab.com\/private\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.merindab.com\/private\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=151592"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.merindab.com\/private\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/151592\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":151603,"href":"https:\/\/www.merindab.com\/private\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/151592\/revisions\/151603"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.merindab.com\/private\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=151592"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.merindab.com\/private\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=151592"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.merindab.com\/private\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=151592"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}