{"id":138715,"date":"2015-08-31T13:35:18","date_gmt":"2015-08-31T13:35:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.merindab.com\/private\/2015\/08\/31\/songlinwrites-thescienceofjohnlock\/"},"modified":"2015-08-31T13:35:18","modified_gmt":"2015-08-31T13:35:18","slug":"songlinwrites-thescienceofjohnlock","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.merindab.com\/private\/2015\/08\/31\/songlinwrites-thescienceofjohnlock\/","title":{"rendered":""},"content":{"rendered":"

songlinwrites<\/a>:<\/p>\n

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thescienceofjohnlock<\/a>:<\/p>\n

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willietheplaidjacket<\/a>:<\/p>\n

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merindab<\/a>:<\/p>\n

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Look, I don\u2019t want a giant pile of wank pointed my way, but I\u2019m going to put this out here and say it once:<\/p>\n

I\u2019m so tired of this fandom. Not all of you, of course, not even most of you. I know the vast majority of us just want to ship whatever we ship, delight over the show we love, discuss and create what we want.<\/p>\n

But there\u2019s also a reason that people stay out of it. My best friend enjoys the show, but says that she\u2019s\u00a0\u2018not in the fandom\u2019. Because she\u2019s seen how much shit goes on over here and wants no part of it. And that\u2019s sad. It puts up a wall. If all someone sees of a fandom or a group is shitposts and infighting, then why the hell would they want to be part of it?<\/p>\n

I know I haven\u2019t been writing as much. Part of that is time and stuff going on with me, part of it is the show, and part of it is fandom. It\u2019s difficult for me to write anything with the show where it stands now. I don\u2019t mind writing stuff going back in time or AUs, or other pairings, but my Johnlock feels kind of broken and I don\u2019t know how to get that back.Hopefully S4, whenever we get it, will fix some of that.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m lucky in that I joined fandom when I did. It was the late summer of 2013, things were still vibrant, everyone was still puzzling over Reichnbach and I was able to write and grow and get so much positive feedback and meet so many amazing people that my life was literally changed.\u00a0<\/p>\n

But something has happened over the last year. Maybe it\u2019s just part of a fandom\u2019s lifecycle. Maybe we\u2019re all just trying to deal with s3. Maybe the more strident voices in this fandom are driving out those of us just trying to do what we do. Well, that one isn\u2019t a maybe, that has certainly happened. And it makes me sad when we lose those voices, when people are so fed up and tired of this fandom that they stop participating. Sure they\u2019re still writing and creating other things, turning their attentions elsewhere (for the most part), but I can\u2019t blame them for wanting out of this. Even if they aren\u2019t a target of the wank themselves, how much are they willing to have on their dashes, how much are they willing to tolerate?<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t like bullying, in any form. I was bullied far too much as a kid to tolerate it as an adult. Even if you\u2019re self-righteously convinced that yours is the only way, that what you\u2019re doing is best for other people, I would plead with you to think about what you\u2019re doing, and who you\u2019re hurting in an effort to\u00a0\u2018correct\u2019 things.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not going anywhere, I don\u2019t think. I\u2019m still here, in my own little corner. But I\u2019m also posting this because even though I\u2019m a nobody I\u2019m still afraid to post it, still afraid this will make me a target. And that\u2019s not right.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

This is exactly it. I know a lot of people want to avoid the whole thing entirely and don\u2019t want to see any wank on their dash, and that\u2019s more than fine. But as a fandom, as a community, I think we really need to take a look at ourselves and make some positive changes, because over the last year or so there have been so many times when I\u2019ve see people take hiatuses or want to leave entirely (including myself) because of some of the pure meanness that can come out of the woodwork sometimes.\u00a0<\/p>\n

This used to be a place of excitement and joy. It used to be such pure fun.\u00a0<\/p>\n

I can\u2019t say that about the Sherlock fandom anymore.\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

I agree completely. I\u2019m not afraid of the wank but I\u2019d rather it wasn\u2019t there at all. I mean getting labeled as a paedophile supporter just for eblogging a list of fic recs, would be funny if it wasn\u2019t so damaging. I lost people I thought were friends over that, just because they believed the wank. This is the side of the fandom I don\u2019t want any part of. I do however think they are few and that they get bored easily, looking for new blood to bash.<\/p>\n

I was in this fandom before the internet existed, before tumblr and I\u2019ll be in it long after too.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

I\u2019m going to tell you something that may or may not make you feel better: there has always been wank in this fandom.\u00a0<\/b>Hear me out. I know that sounds bad, but it is actually the best thing.<\/p>\n

I came in here just prior to series 2, around the fall of 2011, and let me tell you: it was not a wank-free space. Before we had Mary wank, we had Irene wank, and before that, there was Sally wank. OH, THE SALLY WANK.<\/p>\n

marielikestodraw, an incredible<\/i> artist, deleted her page because of harassment. Pretty sure it was because she drew some (great!!) arts for a fic that had a (GASP) woman involved with John and Sherlock. (This was post-S1, so it was, amazingly, Sarah. Good fic; highly recommend<\/a>.) oatmealjumper, who ran probably the best fic rec page around in those days and who I still love to pieces, left for a number of reasons.<\/p>\n

Awesome people have always come in and out of fandom, and it\u2019s always been heartbreaking to lose them. Here\u2019s the good thing though: you know who else left? The people who harassed\u00a0\u2018em<\/i>.<\/p>\n

What I\u2019m saying isn\u2019t that this place has always been toxic. I\u2019m saying that toxic people come, and the fandom outlasts them. There is always enough love in this place to outweigh everything else. The good lasts. Bitterness is hard to sustain, but damn, is it fun to keep up pure, sincere enjoyment.<\/p>\n

Someone will always find something to wank about, but those people don\u2019t last. The excitement lasts.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

songlinwrites: thescienceofjohnlock: willietheplaidjacket: merindab: Look, I don\u2019t want a giant pile of wank pointed my way, but I\u2019m going to put this out here and say it once: I\u2019m so tired of this fandom. Not all of you, of course, not even most of you. I know the vast majority of us just want to … <\/p>\n

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