{"id":131486,"date":"2015-10-16T13:56:20","date_gmt":"2015-10-16T13:56:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.merindab.com\/private\/2015\/10\/16\/doesnt-mod-s-call-herself-a-feminist-she-cant\/"},"modified":"2015-10-16T13:56:20","modified_gmt":"2015-10-16T13:56:20","slug":"doesnt-mod-s-call-herself-a-feminist-she-cant","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.merindab.com\/private\/2015\/10\/16\/doesnt-mod-s-call-herself-a-feminist-she-cant\/","title":{"rendered":"doesn’t mod s call herself a feminist? she can’t be muslim and a feminist, islam is a male dominated religion, women have to be constantly oppressed. it’s disgusting how muslim women are treated"},"content":{"rendered":"

justwhitefeminismthings<\/a>:<\/p>\n

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fuckyeahcaroldanvers<\/a>:<\/p>\n

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Well, first of all, I\u2019m genderfluid, and agender today, but thanks for misgendering me, asshole. (I use they\/them.)<\/p>\n

You wanna talk about how Muslim women and DFAB people are treated? Fine, we can talk about that.<\/p>\n

We can talk about how the Quran was revealed in 632 AD, saying how women are equal to men. (\u201cAnd their Lord responded to them: \u2019\u2026be you male or female – you are equal to one another.\u2019\u201d [Quran 3:195])<\/p>\n

We can talk about how in the 16th century, western men were still debating if women had souls.<\/p>\n

We can talk about how in 632, the 1st century, Muslim women (and all DFAB people) had the rights to choose who to marry, to divorce, to work, to educate and be educated, to have their won inheritance, to their own land and property, to have their own businesses, to participate in combat, to half their husband\u2019s wealth, to have their own opinions, to have custody of their children, and on and on and on.<\/p>\n

We can talk about Muslim women\u2019s right to have a voice in government. Tell me, when did the USA give (white) women \u201cequal participation in the political process,\u201d or voting? 1920. Muslim women have had that since 632.<\/p>\n

We can talk about how Pakistan, Bangladesh, Indonesia, Turkey, Kosovo, Kyrgyzstan, and Senegal have all had female Presidents or Prime Ministers. How 1\/3rd of Egypt\u2019s parliament is female. How in the lovely USA, we haven\u2019t even had a women vice-president yet.<\/p>\n

We can talk about the hijab, niqab, abaya, and burqa, how they\u2019re mainly worn to protect women from leering men, and to allow women to interact freely in public without people being able to judge their bodies or looks and only having their minds and personalities to make judgements off of.<\/p>\n

We can talk a out how the Western world has twisted our clothing into \u201cwomen have to cover up because they\u2019re indecent!\u201d and women and feminine-presenting DFAB people get attacked and have their coverings yanked off, either because of Islamophobic hatred or misguided attempts at saving us.<\/p>\n

We can talk about how I\u2019ve had my hijab ripped off twice, both times by white men, once outside my community\u2019s masjid (the Muslim place of worship.) And oddly enough, my clothing didn\u2019t stop me from breaking one of those men\u2019s noses when he went after my sister. Just like it\u2019s never stopped me from going to school, or playing sports, or doing anything a white woman or DFAB person could do.<\/p>\n

We can talk about how outside of the masjid, where men and women are required to cover their heads, I\u2019ve never once been made to wear a hijab. <\/p>\n

We can talk about how the only people who have lectured me about dressing modestly were non-Muslim teachers and other educators. <\/p>\n

We can talk about how people want to preach about how Muslims think women are indecent, when western schools freak out when a girl shows her shoulders.<\/p>\n

We can talk about my cousin who once made a joke about women belonging in the kitchen and how out of thirty people in the room, the only person who laughed was his white friend. How his father immediately corrected him.<\/p>\n

We can talk about how the first university ever, the University of al-Qarawiyyin, was founded in 858 by Fatima al-Fihri, a Muslim woman. How despite that, the summer I was thirteen and taking extra courses at the community college, an instructor praised me for joining even though \u201cI know Muslim parents don\u2019t let girls have higher education.\u201d I had to look her in the eyes and ask who she thought was paying for my classes.<\/p>\n

We can talk about how in one of those courses, LGBT rights came up and I mentioned I was dating a girl. And someone who was almost twenty-three (ten years older than me at the time) came up to me after that class, and said \u201cI bet your Islamic God doesn\u2019t mind you being a d*ke, cause he gets to watch.\u201d<\/p>\n

We can talk about the Prophet Muhammad (s.a.a.w.) who denounced all forms of enslavement of women, and assisted women in issuing their rights to exist freely.<\/p>\n

We can talk about people who rush to condemn Muslim men for hurting the \u201cdefenseless\u201d girls, then turning around and making jokes about raping and hitting women.<\/p>\n

We can talk about the \u201csaviors of Muslim women,\u201d talking about how they\u2019re so oppressed, they don\u2019t get to make their own choices. <\/p>\n

We can talk about how these people completely ignore anyone who says they\u2019re wrong and call them brainwashed. Because of course millions of women have been coerced into believing in a tradition that views them as subservient, what other explanation is there?<\/p>\n

We can talk about how patronizing and infantalizing this is, how it denies Muslim women and DFAB people agency and puts our \u201csaviors\u201d on a pedestal. \u201cWe need to be their heroes! Because obviously they can\u2019t fix their problems without the aid of white people!\u201d<\/p>\n

We can talk about how it\u2019s true that Muslim women suffer from misogyny. How there are Muslim men who think of women as lesser, how some Muslim women are forced to cover themselves and marry. Because guess what? There is no culture that is exempt from misogyny and sexism, gender discrimination is a problem everywhere. But Islam is not inherently misogynistic, it never has been.<\/p>\n

We can talk about how somehow there\u2019s this incredibly untrue idea that Western cultures have \u201cprogressed forward, and sexism doesn\u2019t exist here, only in other countries and cultures.\u201d<\/p>\n

We can talk about how if people want to help Muslim women, all that is needed is for them to listen to us and follow our lead. <\/p>\n

We can talk about how Muslim women and DFAB people do not need white people to save them. We have always been capable of helping ourselves.<\/p>\n

There are a lot of conversations to be had about the treatment of Muslim women and DFAB people, if it\u2019s something you want to discuss.<\/p>\n

But the thing is? People who talk about how oppressed Muslim women are generally don\u2019t.<\/p>\n

You want a deflection from your misogyny, \u201cYou think I\u2019m bad! You should see how Muslim girls are treated.\u201d You want an excuse for your Islamophobia, \u201cWe need to criticize Islam, they treat women awfully!\u201d You want justification for western imperialism, \u201cThese wars are necessary! We need to save the poor girls!\u201d<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t care about Muslim women and DFAB people.<\/p>\n

Stop pretending like you do.<\/p>\n

– Mod S<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

It really says something that I always have to fucking reblog this.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

justwhitefeminismthings: fuckyeahcaroldanvers: Well, first of all, I\u2019m genderfluid, and agender today, but thanks for misgendering me, asshole. (I use they\/them.) You wanna talk about how Muslim women and DFAB people are treated? Fine, we can talk about that. We can talk about how the Quran was revealed in 632 AD, saying how women are equal … <\/p>\n

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