{"id":103501,"date":"2016-04-27T14:43:51","date_gmt":"2016-04-27T14:43:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.merindab.com\/private\/2016\/04\/27\/missvoltairine-im-watching-an-older-season-of\/"},"modified":"2016-04-27T14:43:51","modified_gmt":"2016-04-27T14:43:51","slug":"missvoltairine-im-watching-an-older-season-of","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.merindab.com\/private\/2016\/04\/27\/missvoltairine-im-watching-an-older-season-of\/","title":{"rendered":""},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a class=\"tumblr_blog\" href=\"http:\/\/missvoltairine.tumblr.com\/post\/139259203031\" target=\"_blank\">missvoltairine<\/a>:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>I\u2019m watching an older season of Hell\u2019s Kitchen and there\u2019s a bit with a guy who had a shitty abusive childhood getting triggered (and like, nobody uses the word\u00a0\u201ctrigger\u201d but it\u2019s pretty obvious: his eyes glaze over, he becomes spacey and disoriented, he bursts into tears at inopportune moments) by Gordon Ramsey calling him by a nickname he associates with his abusive father, and like, he explains this to Ramsey, and Ramsey is like\u00a0\u201cI totally understand and I\u2019m sorry, I only wish you had told me about this sooner so we could have avoided this issue compromising your performance in the kitchen\u201d and it\u2019s like\u2026 there\u2019s all these ridiculous anti-sj types who are like\u00a0\u201cTRIGGERS R DUM, NO TRIGGER WARNINGS IN REAL LIFE!!!!!!!!\u201d and meanwhile Gordon fucking Ramsey, the guy whose JOB it is to berate people until they break down on television, understands the validity of trauma-based triggers and is willing to work around them? like come on<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>missvoltairine: I\u2019m watching an older season of Hell\u2019s Kitchen and there\u2019s a bit with a guy who had a shitty abusive childhood getting triggered (and like, nobody uses the word\u00a0\u201ctrigger\u201d but it\u2019s pretty obvious: his eyes glaze over, he becomes spacey and disoriented, he bursts into tears at inopportune moments) by Gordon Ramsey calling him &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.merindab.com\/private\/2016\/04\/27\/missvoltairine-im-watching-an-older-season-of\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[7194,12806,12805,499,4],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.merindab.com\/private\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/103501"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.merindab.com\/private\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.merindab.com\/private\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.merindab.com\/private\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.merindab.com\/private\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=103501"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.merindab.com\/private\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/103501\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.merindab.com\/private\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=103501"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.merindab.com\/private\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=103501"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.merindab.com\/private\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=103501"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}