merindab: I feel like “adhd” is the stupidest damn excuse but it’s really not.
poedameron-tony: Yeah, because it’s literally the lack of the ability to… just do things.
merindab: Like you’re looking at yourself like “get your shit together. it’s not THAT hard?” People don’t realize how much WE beat ourselves up too. That’s why calling us lazy doesn’t help. We already feel like maybe we are.
poedameron-tony: It’s like… “I understand you are frustrated with me, but trust me, my internalized hatred is more debilitating than your disappointment.”