Talking Publicly About Harassment Generates More Harassment

femfreq:

A few months ago, I posted a series of tweets about some of the most disturbing and vile sexual harassment I receive online.

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(Read my entire series of tweets here)

Because the behaviors of online harassers are often so predictable, I feared that doing this would result in a flood of similar harassment, but I felt it was important to speak out about it precisely because men use tactics like this in an effort to silence and disempower women, and because I know that gendered online harassment of this sort is hardly unique to me. It is important that people understand just how ugly and horrifying the epidemic of online harassment can be. This is not something that can be dismissed or ignored; being the target of such sustained, widespread harassment tactics can and does take a very real mental and emotional toll. Nobody should simply have to accept this as the price of participating in social media.

The tweets you see here represent just a small fraction of the responses I received within the first 24 hours of my comments about this particular online sexual harassment tactic. The responses number well into the hundreds and continued to pour in for weeks. Please note that while I’m not sharing any of the copycat responses that included pictures of genitalia or other explicit imagery, I did receive a great deal of those in addition to the responses below.

Content warning for misogyny, gendered insults, victim blaming, sexual violence, sexual harassment, and threats.

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It’s a Compliment

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Prove it!

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Just Stop Internetting

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Victim Blaming

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What About The Menz!?

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It’s No Big Deal

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Vampire Fics

Just a reminder I’ve got some vamp Sherlock fics:

One Starry Night  – 

Werewolf John Watson has an encounter with vampire Sherlock as he goes into heat. And it leads places neither of them expected. (Yes it’s omegaverse werejohn and vampsherlock; rated E)

Threats – A not-so typical evening for Mycroft and Greg. (vampire Mycroft, human Greg; rated M)

Teeth and Temptation with @type40consultingdetective​ – 

Greg never expected an encounter in the London fog to take him so far from the life he knew. (Historical AU, mystrade and an original character; rated M)

And from Merkat

RSVP – 

“We’d like you to join us, tonight. We won’t turn you, or harm you permanently. But we do need fresh blood on occasion, and given how euphoric the experience can be, we’d rather do it with a friend. You will enjoy yourself.”  (Vampire Sherlock and John, human Greg threesome; rated E)

Dinner’s on the Table – 

He looked deceptively calm, but he knew he was being watched, the way a gazelle could tell a lion was nearby. Only, this gazelle was happy to go straight to the lion’s mouth. (Vampire Sherlock, human John; rated E)

A Compelling Argument – 

John wanted a lot of things for and from Sherlock, but he was content to wait until Sherlock wanted the same for and from him. At least, he was, until a criminal and his blade forced John’s hand. And his fangs.  (Vampire John, human Sherlock, turning; rated E)